Liam: "Mom, when I grow up, I was thinking I might want to be a Chinese man."
Max: "When I am a grandma, I'm going to drive a jeep."
There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children, one is roots; the other, wings.
Thursday, May 30, 2013
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Sunday, May 19, 2013
A Party for the Birthday Boy!
The birthday kid with his first gifts of the day from mom, dad and Liam - Despicable Me guys and shirt!
Tuesday, May 14, 2013
Balance
I've had a great week at work so far. Feels like things are going really smoothly and I am confident in most things I have to do throughout my shift. I feel more able to make independent decisions quickly, if need be, and usually things turn out well. I made a decision about a call tonight that I thought was a good one. I thought I'd be saving the officers some time and saving my coworkers some steps. Instead I got reminded by my supervisor that I can't always "think with my heart" and that I need to remember to "think with my head".
It was frustrating to me because I didn't think of it as "thinking with my heart" when I was taking those extra steps. I was genuinely concerned about the situation and wanted to try and bring it to a positive conclusion if I could. I understood where my supervisor was coming from, and we have to be thinking of the worst possible situations in this job...but there will always be that part of me that chooses compassion first. We are lied to very convincingly and very often in this job...but I still don't feel jaded by it.
I struggle with balancing it all and being the best dispatcher I can be...but ultimately, I'm not in control of it. I know I'm here for a reason...and I need to remind myself that there will always be something to learn and room for improvement. I never saw myself doing something like this...in fact, it makes me feel completely incompetent and overwhelmed when I stop and think about what I do every day. So, I just say a prayer on my way to work...take a deep breath...and see what the night brings.
It was frustrating to me because I didn't think of it as "thinking with my heart" when I was taking those extra steps. I was genuinely concerned about the situation and wanted to try and bring it to a positive conclusion if I could. I understood where my supervisor was coming from, and we have to be thinking of the worst possible situations in this job...but there will always be that part of me that chooses compassion first. We are lied to very convincingly and very often in this job...but I still don't feel jaded by it.
I struggle with balancing it all and being the best dispatcher I can be...but ultimately, I'm not in control of it. I know I'm here for a reason...and I need to remind myself that there will always be something to learn and room for improvement. I never saw myself doing something like this...in fact, it makes me feel completely incompetent and overwhelmed when I stop and think about what I do every day. So, I just say a prayer on my way to work...take a deep breath...and see what the night brings.
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Turtle Convention
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Harry Hamster
Friday, May 10, 2013
Nothing but the tooth
Liam has been complaining about one of his front teeth hurting for a few days now. I didn't think it was a cavity because he takes such good care of his teeth. It didn't seem to be loose yet, but we thought maybe it was just getting ready to fall out. I decided to make him a dentist appointment just to be sure, when I noticed something while brushing his teeth. He has his first adult tooth growing in behind his bottom baby tooth! He was SO excited when I told him that is what it was!
I was a little worried that this was going to cause some major orthodontia problems, but I've since learned it is fairly common and should take care of itself eventually. He's still going to the dentist to get checked out, but we'll hope the tooth fairy will have to make her first appearance at our house soon!
I was a little worried that this was going to cause some major orthodontia problems, but I've since learned it is fairly common and should take care of itself eventually. He's still going to the dentist to get checked out, but we'll hope the tooth fairy will have to make her first appearance at our house soon!
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